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OLDEN DAYS AND NOW DAYS FRIENDSHIP friedship is a means of sharing one feeling with whom you trust,in the olden days friends are more closer than brothers,pity,caring,mutual understanding,and trustwothness dewels in heart of the people of the olden times,as at that time friendship is base on honesty,intergrety,generocity,respect,and self despline, the issue of who you are? what do you have?who are your parent does not exit,thus friends love each other care about each other,respect one another,in that generation a friend can takecare of his friend family whenever he is away from them, his friend would take over the responsibility of the mentainance of his friend family,the children respect their father's friends the way they respect their father,whenever the children are misbehaving their father's friend has the power to stop them or even punish them if they proved stubbornness,whenever the friend is starving he dont need to beg or look for credit but his friends would try their best to help him out without any hesitation, when a friend dies his other friends would cotinue looking after the children in such a way that the orphans would not realise any changes interm of their mentainance,one of the friend wuold marry the wife of his late friend in oder to mitigate the pain of losing her first husband, inshort olden days friends consider themselves as a members of the same family. 2.now days friendship is base on who you are? what do you have? who are your parent? how much do you earn every month? most of the friends befriend you because of what you have? who you are? who are your parent? only very fiew befriend you because of your good habit,how many times you send a 5 pragraph greating texs to a friend of yours but he ignored it or reply with a phrase, how many times you phoned your friend but he refused to peak or if peak he would ask who is on the line?,how many time you invit your friend to your house but he dishonour your invitation,how many times you phone your friend just to great him but he has never ever call you even once,how many times you commented on his post in a social messenger but he has never comment on your,hmm,modern friendship is contrary to the teaching of islam,thefore i decided to unfriend those friends who are not deserve to be may friend,i dont decieve people,iam not proud or bragging of any thing,iam nothing and i have nothing,iam a poor and illetrate man,iam neither good nor bad,i always want honesty,justice and mutual understanding,iam desplinarian boy trained by desplinarian parent,i want share my feeling only with people like me,every humanbeing is a valuable and degnified creation of Allah,so do not depise people do not insult them,correct them whenever they are wrong,love for others what you love for yourself even if they are your enemies,i wish for eveybody that which i wish for my self,may Allah help,guide,and bestew on us his mercy and blessing,may He forgives us our shortcoming and unite the muslim ummah all over the world. www.auwalaliyu.wapka.mobi

friedship is a means of sharing one feeling with whom you trust,in the olden days friends are more closer than brothers,pity,caring,mutual understanding,and trustwothness dewels in heart of the people of the olden times,as at that time friendship is base on honesty,intergrety,generocity,respect,and self despline, the issue of who you are? what do you have?who are your parent does not exit,thus friends love each other care about each other,respect one another,in that generation a friend can takecare of his friend family whenever he is away from them, his friend would take over the responsibility of the mentainance of his friend family,the children respect their father's friends the way they respect their father,whenever the children are misbehaving their father's friend has the power to stop them or even punish them if they proved stubbornness,whenever the friend is starving he dont need to beg or look for credit but his friends would try their best to help him out without any hesitation, when a friend dies his other friends would cotinue looking after the children in such a way that the orphans would not realise any changes interm of their mentainance,one of the friend wuold marry the wife of his late friend in oder to mitigate the pain of losing her first husband, inshort olden days friends consider themselves as a members of the same family. 2.now days friendship is base on who you are? what do you have? who are your parent? how much do you earn every month? most of the friends befriend you because of what you have? who you are? who are your parent? only very fiew befriend you because of your good habit,how many times you send a 5 pragraph greating texs to a friend of yours but he ignored it or reply with a phrase, how many times you phoned your friend but he refused to peak or if peak he would ask who is on the line?,how many time you invit your friend to your house but he dishonour your invitation,how many times you phone your friend just to great him but he has never ever call you even once,how many times you commented on his post in a social messenger but he has never comment on your,hmm,modern friendship is contrary to the teaching of islam,thefore i decided to unfriend those friends who are not deserve to be may friend,i dont decieve people,iam not proud or bragging of any thing,iam nothing and i have nothing,iam a poor and illetrate man,iam neither good nor bad,i always want honesty,justice and mutual understanding,iam desplinarian boy trained by desplinarian parent,i want share my feeling only with people like me,every humanbeing is a valuable and degnified creation of Allah,so do not depise people do not insult them,correct them whenever they are wrong,love for others what you love for yourself even if they are your enemies,i wish for eveybody that which i wish for my self,may Allah help,guide,and bestew on us his mercy and blessing,may He forgives us our shortcoming and unite the muslim ummah all over the world. rr

friedship is a means of sharing one feeling with whom you trust,in the olden days friends are more closer than brothers,pity,caring,mutual understanding,and trustwothness dewels in heart of the people of the olden times,as at that time friendship is base on honesty,intergrety,generocity,respect,and self despline, the issue of who you are? what do you have?who are your parent does not exit,thus friends love each other care about each other,respect one another,in that generation a friend can takecare of his friend family whenever he is away from them, his friend would take over the responsibility of the mentainance of his friend family,the children respect their father's friends the way they respect their father,whenever the children are misbehaving their father's friend has the power to stop them or even punish them if they proved stubbornness,whenever the friend is starving he dont need to beg or look for credit but his friends would try their best to help him out without any hesitation, when a friend dies his other friends would cotinue looking after the children in such a way that the orphans would not realise any changes interm of their mentainance,one of the friend wuold marry the wife of his late friend in oder to mitigate the pain of losing her first husband, inshort olden days friends consider themselves as a members of the same family. 2.now days friendship is base on who you are? what do you have? who are your parent? how much do you earn every month? most of the friends befriend you because of what you have? who you are? who are your parent? only very fiew befriend you because of your good habit,how many times you send a 5 pragraph greating texs to a friend of yours but he ignored it or reply with a phrase, how many times you phoned your friend but he refused to peak or if peak he would ask who is on the line?,how many time you invit your friend to your house but he dishonour your invitation,how many times you phone your friend just to great him but he has never ever call you even once,how many times you commented on his post in a social messenger but he has never comment on your,hmm,modern friendship is contrary to the teaching of islam,thefore i decided to unfriend those friends who are not deserve to be may friend,i dont decieve people,iam not proud or bragging of any thing,iam nothing and i have nothing,iam a poor and illetrate man,iam neither good nor bad,i always want honesty,justice and mutual understanding,iam desplinarian boy trained by desplinarian parent,i want share my feeling only with people like me,every humanbeing is a valuable and degnified creation of Allah,so do not depise people do not insult them,correct them whenever they are wrong,love for others what you love for yourself even if they are your enemies,i wish for eveybody that which i wish for my self,may Allah help,guide,and bestew on us his mercy and blessing,may He forgives us our shortcoming and unite the muslim ummah all over the world. rr